Mastering Mid-Year Excellence: Seven Pillars for Elevating Your Executive Leadership
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Dr. David Hanscom defines awareness as “being fully connected to the present moment” (2021). The ICF states that the aware executive coach “facilitates client insight and learning by using tools and techniques such as powerful questioning, silence, metaphor or analogy.” The aware executive coach is intentionally aware of the “client experience,” as well as their “thinking, values, needs, wants and beliefs.” They are aware of “what is working” for their client as well their potential challenges (ICF, n.d.). When an executive coach practices awareness, they will know “how to facilitate the session” and “the right questions will come at the right moment” (Kumar, 2020).
In summary, the aware executive coach is intentionally aware of all aspects of their coaching relationship, how it affects their clients, and how it affects themselves. The aware executive coach uses their awareness to provide more impactful and personable coaching.
When examining awareness for the executive coach, it is important to understand the different types of awareness. By breaking down the various forms of awareness, executive coaches can further ensure that they are maintaining intentional awareness of their executive coaching. Dr. David Hanscom outlines 4 types of awareness.
As defined by Dr. Hanscom, “environmental awareness involves placing your attention on a single sensation—taste, touch, sound, temperature, etc.” This awareness draws your attention to what is happening in the present moment and allows you to notice not only your surroundings but also your client's non-verbal communication. As the adage goes, most communication is non-verbal. Some even report that non-verbal communication is up to 90% of all communication (UTPB, n.d.). The Society of Human Resource Management states that “managers who rely solely on verbal cues to communicate with employees are missing the majority of what their employees are saying” (Talley, 2010). This is also true for executive coaches. By noticing your clients’ non-verbal cues within your coaching environment, you begin to gain awareness of questions that your clients are not open to, or challenges that are particularly stressful, as displayed by their body language and tone of voice.
Executive coaches should also be aware of emotions that are displayed during a coaching session. Being aware of emotion requires not only awareness but also a vulnerable acceptance of emotions. Dr. Hasncom shares a quote from a fellow doctor in his article which states, “you have to feel to heal” (2021). Without emotional awareness, executive coaches risk being reactive to the behaviors, failures, successes, and challenges of their clients (Hasncom, 2021). This reactivity can displace powerful questions, time for reflection, and insightful discussion. When executive coaches are aware of the emotions that their clients display, they can better address their needs and challenges.
“What is necessary to change a person is to change his awareness of himself.” - Abraham Maslow
It is also important for coaches to be aware of their judgments, unconscious biases, and preconceived notions. Types of judgment can include labeling, perfectionism, and negativity. Dr. Hasncom states that by gaining awareness of these thought patterns, you can work towards “more rational thought patterns.” Furthermore, judgments can also get in the way of powerful questioning. When judgments are made and accepted without being confronted by awareness, curiosity is left far behind. By embracing awareness and questioning preconceived notions, executive coaches can protect their sense of curiosity, ask more powerful questions, and better help their clients achieve their business goals.
Dr. Hasncom states that “your thoughts and beliefs are your version of reality” (2021). The thought patterns and beliefs that you have influence your view of your challenges as well as your view of your clients’ challenges. Being aware of your thought patterns and beliefs can help you recognize unhelpful patterns or beliefs such as negative assumptions about client behavior. Furthermore, learning to recognize your own ingrained thought patterns can help you start recognizing the thought patterns of your clients as well. This new knowledge can be a great source for powerful questions and deeper discussion.
Mindset in Coaching
What
is a mindset?
Our mindsets are “habitual patterns of thinking” that
· Frame the way we see the world
· Program what we believe our limitations and possibilities are
· Define the parameters of our actions and interactions
· Affect our outcomes/results Adapted from: Marilee Goldberg (2002)
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